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Wedding toasts done right create lasting memories

Pem Pfisterer Clark by Pem Pfisterer Clark
August 19, 2025
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(This article first appeared in the August print edition of the Hendersonian.)

Wedding toasts are an exhilarating highlight of wedding celebrations! These heartfelt speeches, typically delivered by important figures like the best man and the bride’s father, and sometimes the couple themselves, bring a rush of emotion and joy to the occasion. They celebrate the newlyweds’ love story and share warm wishes for their future. Get ready for laughter, tears and unforgettable moments as these toasts light up the reception and create lasting memories!

Toasts originated in ancient Greece and Rome to honor deities and promote good health. Hosts would sip from each guest’s drink to prove it wasn’t poisoned! The clinking of glasses was to ward off evil spirits.  The word ‘toast’ has origins that trace back to 16th-century England, when it was a common practice to add a slice of crisp, toasted bread to wine to enhance its taste. As time progressed into the 17th and 18th centuries, this tradition evolved with Champagne, in particular, emerging as a favored beverage for joyous occasions.

Traditionally, the best man begins with a formal speech, followed by the heartfelt sentiments of the bride’s father, with potential contributions from the groom’s parents as well. In contemporary weddings, many couples choose to express their gratitude through personal toasts, sharing reflections on their love story and acknowledging the support of family and friends. These moments not only honor the couple but also strengthen the bonds among all those present.

Wedding toasts are generally characterized by several essential aspects that contribute to their charm and effectiveness: 

The best man’s toast is often delivered in a well-prepared formal setting. This usually occurs after the couple has made their grand entrance at the reception venue and guests have been served drinks, creating an atmosphere of anticipation and excitement.

Toasts should be brief, allowing meaningful sentiments to shine through without lengthy narratives. This brevity keeps the focus on the couple and the occasion’s significance.

While many toasts may include traditional elements, they often sparkle with personalized anecdotes and cherished memories specific to the couple, revealing their unique bond.

Toasts typically express heartfelt appreciation for the couple’s presence and the love that surrounds them. They also include sincere wishes for the couple’s happiness, health, and prosperity in the years to come.

Couples may invite the bride or groom to share their thoughts or encourage additional toasts from close family and friends. This fosters a more inclusive and celebratory atmosphere.

Key elements of a successful wedding toast include the following:

1. Congratulate the couple: Begin by acknowledging the occasion and the love being celebrated.

2. Introduce yourself: Briefly share your relationship to the couple, providing context and establishing a connection with the audience.

3. Share a meaningful or humorous short story: Focus on light-hearted anecdotes that illuminate the couple’s bond and journey together, infusing the speech with warmth and laughter. 

4. Address both partners: It is essential to recognize both individuals entering into marriage, regardless of your closer relationship with one, thereby honoring their unity.

5. Offer well wishes or advice:  Share sincere and heartfelt sentiments for their future together, sprinkling in a word of advice if appropriate.

6. Don’t be inappropriate: Avoid embarrassing stories and inside jokes guests won’t understand.

7. Raise a glass: Conclude your toast by inviting everyone to join in a celebratory gesture, raising glasses in unison to honor the happy couple.

These elements intertwine to craft a memorable tribute, honor the newlyweds, and celebrate the beautiful union being formed.

 My love note: Mr. Groom, don’t forget to toast your bride!  It’s an opportunity to express your love and gratitude for her. Thank her for her unwavering support and the joy she brings to your life.

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