This article first appeared in the print edition of the February Hendersonian published Jan. 30.
The moment was pure magic as you gazed into each other’s eyes. Without a second thought, you popped the question, and to your absolute joy, she said, “YES!” It happened so fast you didn’t have time to worry about not having a ring. But who needs a ring when you both have hearts full of love and commitment, right?
Approximately 80% of couples choose to get engaged with a ring. And it’s common for the modern couple to shop for the ring together. How much should you spend on an engagement ring? The general guideline is to budget two months’ salary, but the final decision is yours. When it comes to shopping for a ring, it’s essential to choose a reputable store with a long history and an experienced professional to help pick the best quality ring within your budget. While making your selection, keep in mind that this is a forever piece of jewelry that must fit your lifestyle and feel comfortable on your finger.
Dazzling engagement diamonds come in different shapes, each with its own unique charm. From the classic round to the elegant pear or the romantic heart-shaped, the options are endless. But why stick to tradition when you can stand out with something truly exceptional? Colored gemstones have been highly treasured throughout history and make for a one-of-a-kind engagement ring. Imagine a stunning emerald symbolizing your everlasting love or a fiery ruby bringing passion and energy to your relationship. Sapphire, on the other hand, represents loyalty and sincerity, while opal embodies hope and purity. Which one speaks to you and your partner?
The image of a newly engaged woman flashing her ring has become a tradition. You can transform this tradition into a personal ritual that will prepare you for your journey to the altar and married life. Before you begin the process of shopping for your gown or setting your wedding date, you can bring blessings to your marriage by blessing your engagement ring. Whenever you extend your hand to show off your beautiful ring, take a moment to pause and reflect on your blessings. Embrace the happiness and love you feel, and reinforce your sense of commitment and joy. Realize whether your ring is made of metal or jewel, it shines with endless possibilities.
Once the engagement ring has been given, there’s a feeling of officialness that helps kick off your wedding adventure. If either one of you has children, you should tell them about the engagement first. Then, call friends and family to share the good news so they can share in your excitement. You don’t have to go through formalities like throwing a party, sending announcements or posting on social media. Your engagement is considered official, irrespective of how you decide to disclose it to others.
There is no prescribed length for the period of engagement, though most couples who want to have anything more than a very simple wedding will find themselves engaged for at least one year, and often longer because it can take that long to plan the nuptials. Couples who have known each other for a while, or those with military or career commitments, may have shorter engagements. Those with an education to complete or other goals to accomplish might be engaged for two or more years. The length of the engagement doesn’t matter. What matters is that you use this special time to strengthen and solidify yourselves as a couple.
My Love Note: Enjoy your engagement and savor the romantic moments, well wishes, and spirit of goodwill.
